Women don't have to:

unkunkel:

organicallyhappy:

1. be thin
2. give birth
3. cook for you
4. have long hair
5. wear makeup
6. have sex with you
7. be feminine
8. be graceful
9. shave
10. diet
11. be fashionable
12. wear pink
13. love men
14. be the media’s idea of perfection
15. listen to your bullshit
16. have a vagina

don’t want to be a tease, but isn’t a vag what defines being a woman? or am i too closed-minded to understand this?

it’s about gender identification.  biological sex (having a vagina or a penis) does not necessarily mean that this person has the matching gender identity.